Sometimes we are so caught up in the "why" something happened to us, that we block the natural flow of life. Nothing is a coincidence.
The "whys" are to be left to a higher power. Not everything is under our control, or for that matter, should we even need to understand it.
There are moments in life where we have no choice but to be an observer of what has happened or is happening—without questioning its nature.
I believe that we need to learn when to be part of the solution and we also need to know when to just let go....
You might not see the lesson, but it's always there—if you allow.